Society always advised me to heroically have a success ethic and to keep on keeping busy. This I never questioned, as I’d rather not be Tarzan but Clark Kent, as in Superman’s Song, “… he would not be caught hanging around, in no jungle scape, dumb as an ape, doing nothing.” (By the Crash Test […]
Respect in Action, Part Three
seanessay.com The Vice President said he appreciated how whenever he asked me a question I would take a second, before I answered. He told me none of the other staff did so, making me —once again— a minority of one. My New Age habit was to pause to get grounded, centred, with my subconscious engaged, […]
Respect In Action Part One
I work with people with disabilities. My supervisor said affectionately, “I can put you with anyone.” That’s because, said a colleague, I always “lean in,” no matter how hard a client is. Yes, and also because clients with challenging behaviours may sense that deep down I respect them. Never, during a confrontation, do I stand […]